A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
The occasion of this sadness is expressed in a word, but must be considered in many more, as being the principal concernment both of the Text and Time.
这一悲伤的时刻用一个词来表达，但必须考虑到更多，作为文本和时间的主要关切。
Adversity is a great teacher, but this teacher makes us pay dearly for its instruction; and often the profit we derive, is not worth the price we paid.
逆境是一位伟大的老师，但正是这位老师让我们付出了高昂的代价;而我们获得的利润，往往与我们付出的代价不相称。
When love dies, the heart's ashes do not leave on the wind—they rest on the mantelpiece of the soul, darkening the sunrise we once saw to be beautiful.
当爱死了，心的灰烬不会留在风中——它们会留在灵魂的壁炉上，让我们曾经美丽的日出变得黯淡无光。
The conscience of an artist worthy of the name is like an incurable disease which causes him endless torment but occasionally fills him with silent joy.
一个名副其实的艺术家的良心就像一种不治之症，给他带来无尽的折磨，但偶尔也会让他充满无言的喜悦。
The pains of childbirth were altogether different from the enveloping effects of other kinds of pain. These were pains one could follow with one's mind.
分娩时的疼痛与其他疼痛的包膜效应完全不同。这是一种可以用心体会的痛苦。
Rootless hope and fruitless desire are there; Let them go to the fire, with never a look behind. The world that was ours is a world that is ours no more.
那里有无根的希望和无结果的欲望;让他们到火边去，不要回头看一眼。曾经属于我们的世界已不再属于我们。
We all lose somebody we care about and want to find some comforting way of dealing with it, something that will give us a little closure, a little peace.
我们都失去了我们在乎的人，我们都想找到一些安慰的方法来处理这件事，一些能给我们一点安慰，一点平静的东西。
As I walked out the door toward the gate that would lead to my freedom, I knew if I didn't leave my bitterness and hatred behind, I'd still be in prison.
当我走出那扇通向自由之门的时候，我知道如果我不把痛苦和仇恨留在身后，我仍然会在监狱里。
You do me wrong to take me out o’th’ grave. Thou art a soul in bliss, but I am bound Upon a wheel of fire, that mine own tears Do scald like molten lead.
你把我带出坟墓是对我的不公平。你是一个沉浸在幸福中的灵魂，而我却被绑在一个火轮上，我的眼泪像熔化的铅一样滚烫。
The key is to get to know people and trust them to be who they are. Instead, we trust people to be who we want them to be - and when they're not, we cry.
关键是要了解别人，相信他们是谁。相反，我们相信人们会成为我们想要他们成为的人——当他们不是时，我们会哭泣。
The difficulty of IVF or of any fertility issues is the hope and the shattered hope, the dream that it might happen this time and then it doesn't happen.
试管婴儿或任何生育问题的困难在于希望和破灭的希望，梦想这一次可能会发生，然后就不会发生。
Imaginary pains are by far the most real we suffer, since we feel a constant need for them and invent them because there is no way of doing without them.
到目前为止，想象中的痛苦是我们所遭受的最真实的痛苦，因为我们不断地感到需要它们，并创造它们，因为没有它们就没有办法。
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He who has felt the deepest grief is best able to experience supreme happiness.
感受过最深悲伤的人，最能体会到最大的幸福。
Sometimes grief is a comfort we grant ourselves because it's less terrifying than trying for joy.
有时候，悲伤是我们给自己的一种安慰，因为它没有为快乐而努力那么可怕。
In your emotions: exercise Joy over sadness.
在你的情绪中:用快乐战胜悲伤。
To give and receive love, you have to be in touch with pain, you have to be capable of provoking it and feeling it.
要给予和接受爱，你必须接触到痛苦，你必须能够激发和感受它。