A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
To have gone through so much work to heal myself and have my mother not acknowledge in any way that she was sorry for what had happened to me, broke my heart.
我经历了这么多的努力来治愈自己，而我的母亲却没有以任何方式承认她对发生在我身上的事感到抱歉，这让我心碎。
Every now and then I read a poem that does touch something in me, but I never turn to poetry for solace or pleasure in the way that I throw myself into prose.
我偶尔读一首诗，确实触动了我内心的某些东西，但我从不像写作散文那样，从诗歌中寻求慰藉或快乐。
The parts of me that hurt the worst want me to write something for them, but I can't. I don't know what to say. I'm lost in all this sadness, and so are they.
我内心最痛苦的部分想让我为他们写点什么，但我不能。我不知道该说什么。我沉浸在所有的悲伤中，他们也是。
Four ducks on a pond, A grass-bank beyond, A blue sky of spring, White clouds on the wing; What a little thing To remember for years---To remember with tears!
池塘上有四只鸭子，远处有一片草地，蓝天上有春天，白云上有翅膀;这是一件多么小的事情，要记住很多年——要用眼泪来记住!
Mourning is not forgetting... It is an undoing. Every minute tie has to be untied and something permanent and valuable recovered and assimilated from the dust.
哀悼不是忘记……这是一种毁灭。每一分钟的束缚都必须被解开，一些永久的、有价值的东西必须从尘埃中恢复和吸收。
When I diagnose my depression now, I think it was partially about saying goodbye to these kids that I always expected to have but already knew that I wouldn't.
当我现在诊断出自己患有抑郁症时，我想，部分原因是我想和这些孩子说再见，我一直希望能和他们道别，但我知道我不会这么做。
Why should you a dog, a horse, a rat have life, And thou no breath at all? Thou’lt come no more. Never, never, never, never, never. Pray you, undo this button.
为什么你是一条狗，一匹马，一只老鼠，却没有一点气息?你不会再来了。永远，永远，永远，永远，永远。求求你，解开这个按钮。
Personally, I've found that the kind of thing that I like is going into somebody else's area and not playing their music but doing whatever I do in their area.
就我个人而言，我发现我喜欢的事情是进入别人的领域，而不是演奏他们的音乐，而是做我在他们的领域里做的任何事情。
No one has ever made me feel like this, no one. So much regret, so much loss, and so much desire all swirled together in my muddled brain. In my muddled heart.
从来没有人让我有过这种感觉，没有人。那么多的遗憾，那么多的损失，那么多的欲望，都在我混乱的脑海里盘旋。在我混沌的心中。
What I need to do to heal myself and to be assuring and allay the fears of others and to heal them if they had any heart wounds from something I may have said.
我需要做什么来治愈自己，安抚和减轻他人的恐惧，如果他们因为我可能说过的话而受到任何心灵创伤，我需要做什么来治愈他们。
When I was about eight, I asked my mother if it was true that God knows everything about you. When she answered yes, I said, 'Then there's no hope for me, Mum.'
八岁那年，我问妈妈，上帝是否真的知道你的一切。当她回答“是”时，我说:“那我就没有希望了，妈妈。”
Pain and sorrow and misery have a right to our assistance: compassion puts us in mind of the debt, and that we owe it to ourselves as well as to the distressed.
痛苦、悲伤和苦难有权利得到我们的帮助:同情使我们想到债务，我们欠自己和痛苦的人的债务。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
You cannot protect yourself from sadness without also protecting yourself from happiness.
你不可能保护自己不悲伤，也不可能保护自己不快乐。
Ever since happiness heard your name, it has been running through the streets trying to find you.
自从幸福听到你的名字，它就一直在街上跑着寻找你。
The worst solitude is to have no real friendships.
最糟糕的孤独是没有真正的友谊。
The conscience of an artist worthy of the name is like an incurable disease which causes him endless torment but occasionally fills him with silent joy.
一个名副其实的艺术家的良心就像一种不治之症，给他带来无尽的折磨，但偶尔也会让他充满无言的喜悦。
The joys of parents are secret, and so are their grieves and fears.
父母的快乐是秘密，他们的悲伤和恐惧也是秘密。
The loss of a friend is like that of a limb; time may heal the anguish of the wound, but the loss cannot be repaired.
失去朋友就像失去了一条腿;时间可以治愈伤口的痛苦，但失去的却无法弥补。