A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
They which have no hope of a life to come, may extend their griefs for the loss of this, and equal the days of their mourning with the years of the life of man.
那些没有来生希望的人，可以延长他们失去生命的痛苦，把他们的哀恸日子和人的一生的年数相等。
My parents were angry, but they were relieved that I was in good condition. They had been afraid the Russians would torture me. They told me not to do it again!
我的父母很生气，但他们放心了，因为我的身体状况很好。他们担心俄国人会折磨我。他们叫我不要再这样做了!
I get a fine warm feeling when I'm doing well, but that pleasure is pretty much negated by the pain of getting started each day. Let's face it, writing is hell.
当我做得很好的时候，我有一种很好的温暖的感觉，但是这种快乐被每天开始的痛苦抵消了。让我们面对现实吧，写作是地狱。
I grew up and I became very successful at what I did as a young man. I became a work addict because this was the only way I could get any relief from this pain.
我长大了，在我年轻时所做的一切都非常成功。我成了一个工作狂，因为这是我能从这种痛苦中得到解脱的唯一途径。
When I was growing up, particularly during puberty in my teen years, I was so miserable because I elicited so much teasing and meanness from my teenage cohorts.
在我成长的过程中，特别是在我十几岁的青春期，我是如此的痛苦，因为我从我十几岁的同龄人那里得到了那么多的嘲笑和刻薄。
I was really, because I thought it was extremely excruciating when I watched a tape of it, that my husband taped for me and I never watched it again after that.
我真的很痛苦，因为我觉得当我看到我丈夫为我录制的录像时，我非常痛苦，从那以后我再也没有看过。
I'd read things, like people criticizing me. But no one likes to read stuff about that, and probably the main thing that was getting to me was me mum's illness.
我读过一些东西，比如人们批评我。但是没有人喜欢读关于这方面的东西，可能最让我恼火的是我妈妈的病。
Mysteriously and in ways that are totally remote from natural experience, the gray drizzle of horror induced by depression takes on the quality of physical pain.
令人费解的是，在完全远离自然体验的情况下，由抑郁引起的灰色恐怖细雨呈现出身体疼痛的性质。
Now conscience wakes despair That slumbered, wakes the bitter memory Of what he was, what is, and what must be Worse; of worse deeds worse sufferings must ensue.
现在良心唤醒了沉睡的绝望，唤醒了他过去、现在和将来的痛苦回忆;更坏的行为必然带来更坏的痛苦。
Parenthood always comes as a shock. Postpartum blues? Postpartum panic is more like it. We set out to have a baby; what we get is a total take-over of our lives.
为人父母总是让人震惊。产后忧郁?更像是产后恐慌。我们打算生个孩子;我们得到的是我们生活的全部。
We suffer primarily not from our vices or our weaknesses, but from our illusions. We are haunted, not by reality, but by those images we have put in their place.
我们的痛苦主要不是来自于我们的恶习或弱点，而是来自于我们的幻想。我们不是被现实所困扰，而是被我们放置在它们的位置上的那些形象所困扰。
The deeper that sorrow carves into your being the more joy you can contain. Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter's oven?
悲伤在你身上刻得越深，你就能包含越多的快乐。那盛着你酒的杯，不正是在陶匠的窑里烧过的杯吗?
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
There's a false perception that women in Africa somehow don't love their babies they way we do, don't grieve their loss the way we would. That is simply not true.
有一种错误的观念认为非洲的妇女不像我们一样爱她们的孩子，不像我们一样为失去孩子而悲伤。但事实并非如此。
The sudden disappointment of a hope leaves a scar which the ultimate fulfillment of that hope never entirely removes.
希望的突然破灭会留下一道伤疤，而这道伤疤永远无法被希望的最终实现彻底抹去。
Loving can cost a lot but not loving always costs more, and those who fear to love often find that want of love is an emptiness that robs the joy from life.
爱会付出很多，但不爱的代价往往更高，那些害怕爱的人往往发现，缺少爱是一种空虚，会夺走生活的乐趣。
The walls we build around us to keep sadness out also keeps out the joy.
我们在自己周围筑起的阻挡悲伤的墙也阻挡了快乐。
We must walk the path of sadness in order to appreciate truly the path of happiness.
我们必须走悲伤的道路，才能真正欣赏幸福的道路。
Only in the agony of parting do we look into the depths of love.
只有在离别的痛苦中，我们才能看到爱的深处。