A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
It's heartbreaking but we're trying to get over it. As disappointed as we were, I think that somehow you have to find a way to think that it happened for a reason.
这令人心碎，但我们正在努力克服它。尽管我们都很失望，但我认为，无论如何，你必须找到一种方式来思考，这件事的发生是有原因的。
That's the great paradox of living on this earth, that in the midst of great pain you can have great joy as well. If we didn't have those things we'd just be numb.
这就是生活在这个世界上最大的矛盾，在巨大的痛苦中，你也可以拥有巨大的快乐。如果我们没有这些东西，我们就会麻木。
I'm drawn to people who share that sense of loss. All actors are trying to repair damaged relationships. I think that might be why I've been drawn to other actors.
我喜欢和我一样有失落感的人。所有的演员都在努力修复受损的关系。我想这可能就是我被其他演员吸引的原因。
We're sad about some of the losses of members of great seniority and distinction in the Congress, and some very new members, who will no longer be serving with us.
我们对国会中一些资历颇深、地位显赫的议员以及一些将不再与我们共事的新议员的流失感到遗憾。
I think sadly that Morse thinks that he can exist on his own and he only realises at the end that he can't and never really has been able to. I feel sorry for him.
我觉得很遗憾，莫尔斯认为他可以独立存在，但他最后才意识到他不能也从来没有真正做到过。我为他感到难过。
Whatever we may say, the happiest moment of the happy man is that of his falling asleep, just as the unhappiest moment of the unhappy man is that of his awakening.
无论我们怎么说，幸福的人最幸福的时刻是他睡着的时候，正如不幸福的人最不幸福的时刻是他醒来的时候一样。
Life does not accommodate you, it shatters you. It is meant to, and it couldn't do it better. Every seed destroys its container or else there would be no fruition.
生活不能包容你，它会让你崩溃。这是命中注定的，而且它不能做得更好。每粒种子都会破坏它的容器，否则就不会有果实。
I just don't want to die alone, that's all. That's not too much to ask for, is it It would be nice to have someone care about me, for who I am, not about my wallet.
我只是不想孤独地死去，仅此而已。这并不是要求太多，有人关心我，关心我是谁，而不是我的钱包，这是不是很好。
I felt I couldn't be a good mom anymore, but I didn't want my children to grow up without a mom. I felt I had to end our lives to protect us from any grief or harm.
我觉得我不能再做一个好妈妈了，但我不想让我的孩子在没有妈妈的情况下长大。我觉得我必须结束我们的生命，以保护我们免受任何悲伤或伤害。
And I have seen dust from the walls of institutions, Finer than flour, alive, more dangerous than silica, Sift, almost invisible, through long afternoons of tedium.
我还看到，从那些比面粉还细、比硅还活、比硅还危险的机构的墙上飘来的灰尘，在漫长而沉闷的下午筛来筛去，几乎是看不见的。
Every day has its great grief or its small anxiety. ... One cloud is dispelled, another forms. There is hardly one day in a hundred of real joy and bright sunshine.
每一天都有它的大悲伤或小焦虑。一片云被驱散，另一片云形成。在百日的欢乐和明媚的阳光中，几乎没有一天是真正快乐的。
Nothing more strongly arouses our disgust than cannibalism, yet we make the same impression on Buddhists and vegetarians, for we feed on babies, though not our own.
没有什么比同类相食更能引起我们的厌恶了，但我们对佛教徒和素食者的印象是一样的，因为我们以婴儿为食，虽然不是我们自己的。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
Do not be afraid that joy will make the pain worse; it is needed like the air we breathe.
不要害怕快乐会使痛苦加剧;它就像我们呼吸的空气一样是需要的。
The greatest happiness is to know the source of unhappiness.
最大的幸福是知道不快乐的来源。
Loving can cost a lot but not loving always costs more, and those who fear to love often find that want of love is an emptiness that robs the joy from life.
爱会付出很多，但不爱的代价往往更高，那些害怕爱的人往往发现，缺少爱是一种空虚，会夺走生活的乐趣。
When you are suffering, you become more understanding about yourself, but also about other people's sufferings too. That's the first step to understand somebody is to understand their sufferings. So then love follows.
当你受苦的时候，你会对自己有更多的了解，也会对别人的痛苦有更多的了解。了解一个人的第一步就是了解他们的痛苦。于是爱随之而来。
Young alienation, disappointment and heartache is all a part of the first real growing up that we do.
年轻时的疏离、失望和心痛都是我们第一次真正长大的一部分。
Broken heart will turn into a stronger one within hope.
破碎的心会在希望中变得更坚强。