A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
I would go to the deeps a hundred times to cheer a downcast spirit. It is good for me to have been afflicted, that I might know how to speak a word in season to one that is weary.
我要到深水里去一百次，为我沮丧的灵魂打气。我受苦原是与我有益，使我知道怎样向疲乏的人说话。
I remember a time when all my fans were crying and sad and going through hell. Now, we're trying to uplift each other and accept ourselves for who we are, even if nobody else does.
我记得有一段时间，我所有的歌迷都在哭泣，悲伤，经历地狱。现在，我们正努力提升彼此，接受自己的本来面目，即使没有其他人这么做。
People used to say everyone knows someone who's had breast cancer. In the past few weeks, I've learned something else: Everyone has someone close to them who has had breast cancer.
人们常说，每个人都知道有人得了乳腺癌。在过去的几周里，我学到了一些其他的东西:每个人都有自己的亲人患有乳腺癌。
I was always depressed growing up. There wasn't a reason for it, I just was. I was sad and morose. I cried a lot, I wrote a lot, and I read a lot; and that was how I dealt with it.
我在成长的过程中总是很沮丧。没有任何理由，我只是。我又伤心又忧郁。我哭了很多，写了很多，读了很多;我就是这样处理的。
I went through a divorce right as we were starting the show. My divorce became final right after we started shooting the first year, and during that time I was in such a low place.
就在我们开始节目的时候，我离婚了。在我们开始拍摄的第一年，我的离婚就成了定局，在这段时间里，我处于一个很低的位置。
When you can't remember why you're hurt, that's when you're healed. When you have to work real hard to re-create the pain, and you can't quite get there, that's when you're better.
当你不记得为什么受伤时，那就是你痊愈的时候。当你必须非常努力地工作来重新制造痛苦，而你又不能完全达到那种程度时，那就是你更好的时候。
I love to be with my son and my grandchildren, like normal people. I have no particular idea of what I represent to other people. It's very mysterious to me. I don't understand it.
我喜欢和我的儿子和孙子们在一起，就像正常人一样。我不知道我在别人面前代表什么。这对我来说很神秘。我不明白。
For years, my master had done his utmost to pollute my mind with foul images, and to destroy the pure principles inculcated by my grandmother, and the good mistress of my childhood.
多年来，我的主人尽其所能用肮脏的形象污染我的心灵，破坏我祖母和我童年时代的好女主人所灌输的纯洁的原则。
I felt along with her - not the physical pain, of course, but all her mental anguish. You can't be detached. She needed to have someone who understood what was happening in her mind.
我和她在一起——当然不是身体上的痛苦，而是她所有的精神痛苦。你不能超脱。她需要一个能理解她内心想法的人。
And yet, I suppose you mourn the loss or the death of what you thought your life was, even if you find your life is better after. You mourn the future that you thought you'd planned.
然而，我想，即使你发现你以后的生活变得更好了，你还是会为失去或死亡而感到悲伤。你为自己计划好的未来感到悲哀。
But the memory of war weighs undiminished upon the people's minds. That is because deeper than material wounds, moral wounds are smarting, inflicted by the so- called peace treaties.
但是，战争的记忆依然压在人民的心头。这是因为，所谓的和平条约造成的精神创伤比物质创伤更严重。
It was very hard for all of us. It's still very hard. The anniversary of his death just passed, and every single one of his friends, still, after all these years... it's unbelievable.
这对我们所有人来说都是非常困难的。这仍然很难。他的忌日刚刚过去，他的每一个朋友，在这么多年之后……这是难以置信的。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
In your emotions: exercise Joy over sadness.
在你的情绪中:用快乐战胜悲伤。
Loving can cost a lot but not loving always costs more, and those who fear to love often find that want of love is an emptiness that robs the joy from life.
爱会付出很多，但不爱的代价往往更高，那些害怕爱的人往往发现，缺少爱是一种空虚，会夺走生活的乐趣。
He who has felt the deepest grief is best able to experience supreme happiness.
感受过最深悲伤的人，最能体会到最大的幸福。
When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help. That's the message he is sending.
当别人让你受苦时，那是因为他内心深处在受苦，他的痛苦正在蔓延。他不需要惩罚;他需要帮助。这就是他要传达的信息。
The conscience of an artist worthy of the name is like an incurable disease which causes him endless torment but occasionally fills him with silent joy.
一个名副其实的艺术家的良心就像一种不治之症，给他带来无尽的折磨，但偶尔也会让他充满无言的喜悦。
We must walk the path of sadness in order to appreciate truly the path of happiness.
我们必须走悲伤的道路，才能真正欣赏幸福的道路。