A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone, Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone, Silence the pianos and with muffled drum Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.
停止所有的时钟，切断电话，用一根多汁的骨头防止狗叫，让钢琴安静下来，用低沉的鼓声抬出棺材，让哀悼者进来。
The pain is too much, the loss too great. There is no more before, and the after is too devastating. There isn’t enough of me left to go on. Grief has stolen too much of me now.
痛苦太大，损失太大。以前已经没有了，以后的打击太大了。我已经没有足够的精力继续下去了。悲伤已经占据了我太多的时间。
When remedies are past, the griefs are ended By seeing the worst which late on hopes depended. To mourn a mischief that is past and gone Is the next way to draw new mischief on.
当补救措施过去后，人们看到了最坏的情况，从而结束了痛苦。为过去和过去的灾难哀悼，将会导致新的灾难。
Two aged men, that had been foes for life, Met by a grave, and wept - and in those tears They washed away the memory of their strife; Then wept again the loss of all those years.
两个年老的人，他们一生的宿敌，在一个坟墓前相遇，哭了起来——在这些眼泪中，他们冲掉了对他们争斗的记忆;然后又为失去了这么多年而哭泣。
This is an old family secret, and I just found this out recently, and it almost broke my heart. My mother said to me, 'I had never told you this, but God, you were an ugly baby'.
这是一个古老的家庭秘密，我最近才发现，这几乎让我心碎。妈妈对我说:“我从来没有告诉过你这些，但是上帝，你是个丑娃娃。”
In the cellars of the night, when the mind starts moving around old trunks of bad times, the pain of this and the shame of that, the memory of a small boldness is a hand to hold.
在夜晚的地窖里，当我们的思想开始绕着过去那些糟糕时光的树干转动时，这种痛苦和那种耻辱，那种小小的勇气的记忆是可以握住的手。
For anyone going through a divorce or any other painful challenge, the first and most important recommendation I can make is to find some kind of spiritual and emotional support.
对于任何正在经历离婚或其他痛苦挑战的人来说，我能给出的第一个也是最重要的建议就是找到某种精神和情感上的支持。
It is like visiting one's funeral, like visiting loss in its purest and most monumental form, this wild darkness, which is not only unknown but which one cannot enter as oneself.
这就像去参加一个人的葬礼，以最纯粹、最不朽的形式去拜访失去的亲人，这狂野的黑暗，不仅是未知的，而且是一个人无法以自己的身份进入的黑暗。
All things of the body stream away like a river, all things of the mind are dreams and delusion; life is warfare, and a visit to a strange land; the only lasting fame is oblivion.
身体的一切都像河流一样流走，头脑的一切都是梦和妄想;生活是一场战争，是对陌生土地的访问;唯一永恒的名声是遗忘。
Cancer has been unfortunately in my life. My mom's best friend is kicking ass in her battle with breast cancer. Both of my grandmas had cancer. I recently lost a friend to cancer.
不幸的是，癌症一直在我的生活中。我妈妈最好的朋友正在和乳腺癌做斗争。我的两个奶奶都得了癌症。我最近因为癌症失去了一个朋友。
It is one of the most saddening things in life that, try as we may, we can never be certain of making people happy, whereas we can almost always be certain of making them unhappy.
这是生活中最令人悲伤的事情之一，尽管我们尽了最大的努力，但我们永远不能肯定能让人们幸福，而我们几乎总是能肯定能让他们不幸福。
I am tired, beloved, of chafing my heart against the want of you; of squeezing it into little ink drops, and posting it. And I scald alone, here, under the fire of the great moon.
亲爱的，我累了，因为没有你，我的心烦躁不安;把它挤进小墨水滴里，然后贴上去。我在这里，在一轮明月的照耀下，独自烫伤。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
He who can conceal his joys, is greater than he who can hide his griefs.
能隐藏快乐的人，比能隐藏悲伤的人更伟大。
Only in the agony of parting do we look into the depths of love.
只有在离别的痛苦中，我们才能看到爱的深处。
The loss of a friend is like that of a limb; time may heal the anguish of the wound, but the loss cannot be repaired.
失去朋友就像失去了一条腿;时间可以治愈伤口的痛苦，但失去的却无法弥补。
He who has felt the deepest grief is best able to experience supreme happiness.
感受过最深悲伤的人，最能体会到最大的幸福。
When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help. That's the message he is sending.
当别人让你受苦时，那是因为他内心深处在受苦，他的痛苦正在蔓延。他不需要惩罚;他需要帮助。这就是他要传达的信息。
In your emotions: exercise Joy over sadness.
在你的情绪中:用快乐战胜悲伤。