A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
The bad thing about falling into pieces is that it hurts. The good thing about it is that once you're lying there in shards you've got nothing left to protect, and so have no reason not to be honest.
摔成碎片的坏处是很疼。它的好处是，一旦你躺在碎片里，你就没有什么可以保护的了，所以没有理由不诚实。
The feeling of inferiority rules the mental life and can be clearly recognized as the sense of incompleteness and unfulfillment, and in the uninterrupted struggle both of individuals and of humanity.
自卑感支配着人的精神生活，是一种不完整、不满足的感觉，是个体和人类不断斗争的结果。
When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help. That's the message he is sending.
当别人让你受苦时，那是因为他内心深处在受苦，他的痛苦正在蔓延。他不需要惩罚;他需要帮助。这就是他要传达的信息。
To believe practically that the poor and luckless are here only as a nusiance to be abraded and abated, and in some permissable manner made away with, and swept out of sight, is not an amiable faith.
实际上，认为穷人和不幸的人在这里只是作为一种需要磨蚀和减轻的妄想，并以某种不容容忍的方式加以抛弃和扫除，这并不是一种和蔼可亲的信仰。
Mental illness is a very powerful thing. If it is with you it is probably going to be there until the day you die. I am trying so hard to break mine, but it is not easy. It is my toughest fight ever.
精神疾病是非常强大的。如果它与你同在，它很可能就在那里，直到你死去的那一天。我很努力地想打破我的梦想，但这并不容易。这是我最艰苦的战斗。
Black patients were treated much later in their disease process. They were often not given the same kind of pain management that white patients would have gotten and they died more often of diseases.
黑人病人的治疗要晚得多。他们通常没有得到白人病人会得到的那种疼痛管理，而且他们死于疾病的几率更大。
A tear slipped down her cheek. “Why am I different?” Daemon looked away. Oh, child. How could he explain that she was dreams made flesh? That for some of them, she made the blood in their veins sing?
一滴眼泪从她的面颊上滑落。“我为什么与众不同?”守护进程看向别处。哦,孩子。他怎么解释她是有血有肉的梦呢?对他们中的一些人来说，她让他们血管里的血液歌唱?
Out, alas, she’s cold. Her blood is settled, and her joints are stiff. Life and these lips have long been separated. Death lies on her like an untimely frost Upon the sweetest flower of all the field.
出去了，唉，她冷了。她的血凝固了，她的关节僵硬了。生命和这两片嘴唇早已分离。死亡就像一场不合时宜的霜冻，覆盖在田野上最甜蜜的花朵上。
Every day we do get closer to a cure. Three out of four children who are diagnosed with cancer will survive the disease, but that is not good enough. The loss of one child to this disease is too much.
我们每天都在接近治愈。被诊断患有癌症的儿童中，有四分之三能够存活下来，但这还不够好。一个孩子死于这种疾病是太多了。
Black people were very angry with me for writing the book. A lot of people didn't believe me, or didn't want to believe me, and that used to really bother me. It was a very painful and difficult time.
黑人对我写这本书很生气。很多人不相信我，或者不愿意相信我，这曾经让我很困扰。那是一段非常痛苦和艰难的时期。
Pretty scared. When you break up scar tissue, it's going to feel the same as when you tore your ligament. Then you have to do all the tests and everything else. As far the pain, it's almost identical.
很害怕。当你撕裂疤痕组织时，你的感觉和韧带撕裂时是一样的。然后你要做所有的测试和其他事情。至于疼痛，几乎是一样的。
The desperate things seem to require attention, the lovely things seem to elicit celebration. If I had to choose, I would go to the awful in the hope that doing something could yield a happier result.
绝望的事情似乎需要关注，可爱的事情似乎会引发庆祝。如果我必须选择，我愿意去做可怕的事情，希望做一些事情可以产生一个更快乐的结果。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
Endure and persist; this pain will turn to good by and by.
忍受和坚持;这种痛苦不久就会好转的。
The greatest happiness is to know the source of unhappiness.
最大的幸福是知道不快乐的来源。
It is right it should be so, Man was made for joy and woe; And when this we rightly know, Through the world we safely go.
应该如此，人是为快乐和悲伤而生的;当我们正确地认识到这一点时，我们就能安全地穿过这个世界。
When you are suffering, you become more understanding about yourself, but also about other people's sufferings too. That's the first step to understand somebody is to understand their sufferings. So then love follows.
当你受苦的时候，你会对自己有更多的了解，也会对别人的痛苦有更多的了解。了解一个人的第一步就是了解他们的痛苦。于是爱随之而来。
In this world, full often, our joys are only the tender shadows which our sorrows cast.
在这个世界上，我们的欢乐往往只是我们的悲伤投下的柔和的影子。
The walls we build around us to keep sadness out also keeps out the joy.
我们在自己周围筑起的阻挡悲伤的墙也阻挡了快乐。