A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
But even though all this was going on at home, if someone had tried to take me away and put me in a children's home, I couldn't have handled it. Even though my mother was very brutal, it was my home.
但即使这一切都发生在家里，如果有人试图把我带走，把我送到儿童之家，我也无法应付。尽管我的母亲很残忍，但那是我的家。
I had a nightmare about being on a cruise ship and the ship going down. It was an arduous process of the ship going down and we knew it was going down. There was everyone I know and love on the ship.
我做了个噩梦，梦见自己在游轮上，船要沉了。船下沉是一个艰难的过程，我们知道它正在下沉。船上有我认识和爱的每一个人。
There's no other way to be. You've saved me so many times...I worry that I've been selfish with you. That I've taken advantage of your strength and your selflessness and that I've broken you somehow.
别无他法。你救了我很多次…我担心我对你太自私了。我利用了你的力量和你的无私，不知何故我把你弄垮了。
One in six people suffer depression or a chronic anxiety disorder. These are not the worried well but those in severe mental pain with conditions crippling enough to prevent them living normal lives.
六分之一的人患有抑郁症或慢性焦虑症。这些人并不是忧心忡忡的人，而是那些遭受严重精神痛苦、身体状况严重到无法正常生活的人。
O thou, the friend of man assigned, With balmy hands his wounds to bind, And charm his frantic woe: When first Distress with dagger keen Broke forth to waste his destined scene, His wild unsated foe!
啊，你，人类的朋友，用你柔润的双手包扎他的伤口，用你迷人的魅力抚慰他狂乱的悲哀。
I want to go south, where there is no autumn, where the cold doesn’t crouch over one like a snow-leopard waiting to pounce. The heart of the North is dead, and the fingers of cold are corpse fingers.
我想去南方，那里没有秋天，那里的寒冷不会像雪豹一样蜷缩在那里等着扑过来。北方的心是死的，寒冷的手指是死的手指。
Anyone who cannot come to terms with his life while he is alive needs one hand to ward off a little his despair over his fate... but with his other hand he can note down what he sees among the ruins.
任何活着时无法接受自己生活的人，都需要一只手来抵御他对命运的绝望……但用另一只手，他可以记下他所看到的废墟。
You realize I wouldn't be in this situation if it wasn't for you. If you'd stayed in your place at the river court I never would have met Haley. You ruined my life, man. You'd better watch your back.
你知道如果不是因为你，我不会有现在的处境。如果你一直呆在河边法院我就不会遇到海莉了你毁了我的生活。你最好小心点。
Right now I am trying to be in a place of calm, a place where I can chill out and then handle the chaos of life better. You don't just get it overnight; you have to work at it. It's a daily struggle.
现在我试着去一个平静的地方，一个我可以冷静下来，然后更好地处理生活中的混乱的地方。你不可能一蹴而就;你必须努力去做。这是每天的挣扎。
I never suffered from the absence of a father. On the contrary, as a child I was more inclined to see men as a disturbing factor. It made things difficult for me when I started working as a director.
我从来没有因为没有父亲而感到痛苦。相反，当我还是个孩子的时候，我更倾向于把男人看作一个令人不安的因素。当我开始做导演的时候，这对我来说很困难。
There is nothing heavier than compassion. Not even one's own pain weighs so heavy as the pain one feels for someone, for someone, pain intensified by the imagination and prolonged by a hundred echos.
没有什么比同情更重要的了。甚至一个人自己的痛苦也没有他对别人的痛苦那么沉重，对别人来说，想象使痛苦加剧，一百种回音使痛苦延长。
Girls' inner critics are starting to reveal themselves at a younger and younger age. And body image issues are an aspect of their lives which is causing them low self esteem and day-to-day suffering.
女孩的内心批评在越来越小的年纪就开始显露出来。身体形象问题是他们生活的一个方面，这导致他们缺乏自尊和每天的痛苦。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
Endure and persist; this pain will turn to good by and by.
忍受和坚持;这种痛苦不久就会好转的。
The cure for sorrow is to learn something.
治愈悲伤的方法是学习一些东西。
Sometimes grief is a comfort we grant ourselves because it's less terrifying than trying for joy.
有时候，悲伤是我们给自己的一种安慰，因为它没有为快乐而努力那么可怕。
Loving can cost a lot but not loving always costs more, and those who fear to love often find that want of love is an emptiness that robs the joy from life.
爱会付出很多，但不爱的代价往往更高，那些害怕爱的人往往发现，缺少爱是一种空虚，会夺走生活的乐趣。
It is right it should be so, Man was made for joy and woe; And when this we rightly know, Through the world we safely go.
应该如此，人是为快乐和悲伤而生的;当我们正确地认识到这一点时，我们就能安全地穿过这个世界。