A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
I only know that summer sang in me A little while, that in me sings no more.
我只知道，夏天在我心中歌唱了一会儿，那歌声就不再在我心中歌唱了。
Short swallow-flights of song, that dip Their wings in tears, and skim away.
短燕的歌声，蘸着眼泪，掠过他们的翅膀。
There is a type of shame which comes from being happy at another’s distress.
有一种羞愧来自于对他人的痛苦感到高兴。
I will indulge my sorrows, and give way to all the pangs and fury of despair.
我要沉湎于我的悲伤，让位于所有的痛苦和愤怒的绝望。
Only I discern--- Infinite passion, and the pain Of finite hearts that yearn.
只有我能分辨——无限的激情，和渴望的有限心灵的痛苦。
Most people would rather be certain they're miserable, than risk being happy.
大多数人宁愿确定自己很痛苦，也不愿冒险快乐。
The safest way of not being very miserable is not to expect to be very happy.
不太痛苦的最安全的方法就是不要期望自己很快乐。
When you lose a lover it's like getting a bad haircut. It grows back in time.
失去爱人就像剪了个糟糕的发型。时光倒流。
The natural effect of sorrow over the dead is to refine and elevate the mind.
为死者哀悼的自然结果是净化和提升心灵。
Desperate and lonely, I was determined to find solace in the arms of another.
绝望而孤独，我决定在另一个人的怀抱中寻求安慰。
The practice of loving kindness can uplift us & relieve sorrow & unhappiness.
实践爱的善意可以提升我们，减轻悲伤和不快乐。
There is no greater pain than to remember a happy time when one is in misery.
没有什么比在痛苦中回忆起快乐的时光更痛苦的了。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
Sometimes grief is a comfort we grant ourselves because it's less terrifying than trying for joy.
有时候，悲伤是我们给自己的一种安慰，因为它没有为快乐而努力那么可怕。
Endure and persist; this pain will turn to good by and by.
忍受和坚持;这种痛苦不久就会好转的。
Only in the agony of parting do we look into the depths of love.
只有在离别的痛苦中，我们才能看到爱的深处。
The greatest happiness is to know the source of unhappiness.
最大的幸福是知道不快乐的来源。
Young alienation, disappointment and heartache is all a part of the first real growing up that we do.
年轻时的疏离、失望和心痛都是我们第一次真正长大的一部分。