A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
Naming suffering, exalting it, dissecting it into its smallest components – that is doubtless a way to curb mourning.
给痛苦命名，赞扬它，把它分解成最小的组成部分——这无疑是一种抑制悲痛的方法。
She lived unknown, and few could know When Lucy ceased to be; But she is in her grave, and, oh, The difference to me!
她默默无闻地活着，很少有人知道露西什么时候去世的;但是她已经进了坟墓，哦，这对我有什么不同!
Happiness was my fate, my remorse, my worm: my life would always be too large to be dedicated to force and to beauty.
幸福是我的命运，是我的悔恨，是我的蠕虫:我的生命将永远太大，无法奉献给力量和美。
However light-hearted you try to be about it, the loss of youth, and everything that goes with it, is quite a trauma.
不管你如何轻松地对待它，青春的逝去，以及随之而来的一切，都是相当大的创伤。
’Tis now the very witching time of night, When churchyards yawn and hell itself breathes out Contagion to this world.
现在正是夜晚最迷人的时刻，教堂墓地在打哈欠，地狱本身也向这个世界散发着传染病。
Before the beginning of years There came to the making of man Time with a gift of tears, Grief with a glass that ran.
在许多年以前，人类就开始用眼泪来创造时间，用眼泪来制造悲伤。
I always seemed to disappoint them. They expected me to be different than Henry or exactly like Henry. I was neither.
我似乎总是让他们失望。他们希望我和亨利不同，或者和亨利完全一样。我既不是。
The sudden disappointment of a hope leaves a scar which the ultimate fulfillment of that hope never entirely removes.
希望的突然破灭会留下一道伤疤，而这道伤疤永远无法被希望的最终实现彻底抹去。
And none will hear the postman’s knock Without a quickening of the heart. For who can bear to feel himself forgotten?
没有人不加快心跳就会听到邮递员的敲门声。谁能忍受自己被人遗忘呢?
The loss of a friend is like that of a limb; time may heal the anguish of the wound, but the loss cannot be repaired.
失去朋友就像失去了一条腿;时间可以治愈伤口的痛苦，但失去的却无法弥补。
Once opening the door was a promise of happiness, now my surroundings seem to have appointed me the keeper of sadness.
曾经，开门是幸福的保证，而现在，我周围的环境似乎让我成为了悲伤的守护者。
Begining are usually scary and endings are usually sad, but it's everything in between that makes it all worth living.
开始通常是可怕的，结束通常是悲伤的，但正是在这两者之间的一切让生活变得有意义。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
The joys of parents are secret, and so are their grieves and fears.
父母的快乐是秘密，他们的悲伤和恐惧也是秘密。
The deeper that sorrow carves into your being the more joy you can contain. Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter's oven?
悲伤在你身上刻得越深，你就能包含越多的快乐。那盛着你酒的杯，不正是在陶匠的窑里烧过的杯吗?
When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help. That's the message he is sending.
当别人让你受苦时，那是因为他内心深处在受苦，他的痛苦正在蔓延。他不需要惩罚;他需要帮助。这就是他要传达的信息。
In this world, full often, our joys are only the tender shadows which our sorrows cast.
在这个世界上，我们的欢乐往往只是我们的悲伤投下的柔和的影子。
Broken heart will turn into a stronger one within hope.
破碎的心会在希望中变得更坚强。
Loving can cost a lot but not loving always costs more, and those who fear to love often find that want of love is an emptiness that robs the joy from life.
爱会付出很多，但不爱的代价往往更高，那些害怕爱的人往往发现，缺少爱是一种空虚，会夺走生活的乐趣。