A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
愤怒
Anger
I get mad like anybody else does, but being able to laugh about getting mad is very healthy, and my kids know that.
我和其他人一样会生气,但是能够笑着面对生气是非常健康的,我的孩子们也知道这一点。
No, seriously, I really don't have much ill-will toward anyone these days; I just ignore the people that I dislike.
不,说真的,我最近对谁都没有什么恶意。我只是忽视那些我不喜欢的人。
Anger is a manifestation of a deeper issue... and that, for me, is based on insecurity, self-esteem and loneliness.
愤怒是一个更深层次问题的表现。对我来说,这是基于不安全感、自尊和孤独。
I can't stand when people say, Don't hate me because I'm beautiful. OK, how about I hate you because you said that'
我不能忍受别人说,不要因为我漂亮而恨我。好吧,我恨你怎么样,因为你说了那些话。”
‘You’re not upset, are you,Orr ?’ Brooke says, pouring wine into my glass. ‘Merely sober. The symptoms are similar.’
“你没有生气,是吗,奥尔?”布鲁克说着,把酒倒进我的杯子里。“仅仅是清醒的。症状相似。”
There was a ton of fighting between my mother and father. The kids would be thrown into the middle, to choose sides.
我的父母之间发生了很多争吵。孩子们会被扔到中间,选择立场。
I had a lot of anger inside me and that came out at times that were not particularly advantageous to me career-wise.
我的内心充满了愤怒,有时这种愤怒对我的职业生涯并不是特别有利。
What pisses me off is when I've got seven or eight record company fat pig men sitting there telling me what to wear.
让我生气的是,有七八个唱片公司的胖子坐在那里告诉我该穿什么。
The nerve. Threatening you and not being precise about it.The nerve. Threatening you and not being precise about it.
神经。威胁你,但又不明确。神经。威胁你,但又不明确。
When I am at a straight club, which is like once a year, if a man even looks in my direction, I verbally attack him.
我在异性恋俱乐部的时候,大概一年一次,如果一个男人朝我这个方向看,我就会用言语攻击他。
There's only one way to become a hitter. Go up to the plate and get mad. Get mad at yourself and mad at the pitcher.
成为击球手只有一个方法。走到盘子前生气。生自己的气,生投手的气。
Now with all your pride you still can't look me in the eyes and now in all your shame. You can't even speak my name.
现在你带着你所有的骄傲,仍然不能看着我的眼睛,现在又带着你所有的羞愧。你连我的名字都不会说。
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沿着这个主题,再读几句。
When we are angry or depressed in our creativity, we have misplaced our power. We have allowed someone else to determine our worth, and then we are angry at being undervalued.
当我们对自己的创造力感到愤怒或沮丧时,我们把自己的力量放错了地方。我们让别人来决定我们的价值,然后我们对被低估感到愤怒。
Those who are skilled in combat do not become angry. The wise win before the fight and the ignorant fight to win.
善于战斗的人不会生气。智者在战斗前获胜,愚者为胜利而战。
Love and anger are like land and sea: They meet at many different places.
爱和愤怒就像陆地和海洋:它们在许多不同的地方相遇。
If we could learn to like ourselves, even a little, maybe our cruelties and angers might melt away.
如果我们能学会喜欢自己,哪怕是一点点,也许我们的残忍和愤怒就会消失。
You can only hate someone whom you have the capacity to love, because if you are really indifferent, you cannot even get up the enough energy to hate him.
你只能恨一个你有能力去爱的人,因为如果你真的漠不关心,你甚至没有足够的精力去恨他。
Letting go gives us freedom, and freedom is the only condition for happiness. If, in our heart, we still cling to anything - anger, anxiety, or possessions - we cannot be free.
放手给我们自由,自由是幸福的唯一条件。如果我们的内心仍然执着于任何东西——愤怒、焦虑或财产——我们就无法获得自由。