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愤怒
Anger
There were also some cruel reviews by women, but the tone of the male reviewers, sometimes hysterical, was different. I have suffered, but I don't want to name names-but there have been men who have seemed to want to destroy me or my writing, men I don't even know.
女性也有一些残酷的评论，但男性评论者的语气，有时歇斯底里，是不同的。我遭受过苦难，但我不想指名道姓——但有些人似乎想毁掉我或我的写作，有些人我甚至不认识。
Half close your eyelids, loosen your hair, And dream about the great and their pride; They have spoken against you everywhere, But weigh this song with the great and their pride; I made it out of a mouthful of air, Their children’s children shall say they have lied.
半闭上你的眼睛，松开你的头发，梦见伟大的人和他们的骄傲;他们在各处攻击你，却以权贵和骄傲衡量这首歌;我满口胡言乱语，他们的孩子的孩子会说他们撒了谎。
There are people who must spend huge amounts of time composing these online diatribes against me, all about how disgusting and terrible I am and how no one should ever read my books, and it's not enough for them to hate me, they can't stand the fact that ANYONE likes me!
有些人必须花大量的时间写这些网上谩骂攻击我,我是多么的恶心和可怕的和没有人应该如何读过我的书,它没有足够的让他们恨我,他们不能忍受任何人喜欢我!
This is a very important practice. Live your daily life in a way that you never lose yourself. When you are carried away with your worries, fears, cravings, anger, and desire, you run away from yourself and you lose yourself. The practice is always to go back to oneself.
这是一个非常重要的实践。以一种永不迷失自我的方式过好你的日常生活。当你被忧虑、恐惧、渴望、愤怒和欲望冲昏头脑时，你就会逃离自己，失去自我。修行总是要回到自己身上。
If I make a bogey or three putt I'm on fire inside. But it's not like you're going to play any better slamming your club or getting angry. So you might as well just keep it in. People say I'm pretty calm, but I do make mistakes and I do get angry, but I try and not show it.
如果我打了一个柏忌或三个推杆，我的内心就会燃烧起来。但这并不是说你会打得更好，更猛烈地抨击你的球杆或更生气。所以你还是把它收起来吧。人们说我很冷静，但我也会犯错，也会生气，但我尽量不表现出来。
I'm generally slow to anger, quick to forgive, and I take in information before making decisions. So no matter how controversial the decision, my general demeanour is to put on white lab coat and gloves and look at the evidence, weigh the arguments and see what makes sense.
我通常不容易生气，但很快就会原谅别人，而且在做决定前我会收集信息。所以，不管这个决定有多么有争议，我的一般做法是穿上白色的实验服，戴上手套，看看证据，权衡一下论点，看看什么是合理的。
But on second thought, after I decreed the state of emergency, I came to the conclusion that that was impossible to achieve without bloodshed because the street protesters were full of anger and nearly out of control. This is why I thought we needed to find another way out.
但经过再三思考，在我宣布全国进入紧急状态后，我得出的结论是，不流血是不可能实现这一目标的，因为街头抗议者充满愤怒，几乎失控。这就是为什么我认为我们需要找到另一条出路。
I try not to get too rattled about things that aren't that important - there's a different outburst for when the kids are reaching for a knife in the kitchen versus the reaction I have when they just won't stop talking. And my wife and I have mellowed out as we've gone along.
我尽量不去为那些不那么重要的事情感到慌乱——当孩子们在厨房里拿刀的时候，我的情绪会爆发，而当他们不停地说话的时候，我的情绪会爆发。我和妻子在一起的时候变得成熟了。
It only takes a few politicians to stoke division, or a few demagogues encouraging hatred to set your kind upon one another. And then before you know it, you have a whole nation biting on its own tail, going round and round until there is nothing left but the snapping of teeth.
只要几个政客煽动分裂，或者几个煽动仇恨的煽动者，你们就会互相仇视。然后在你意识到之前，整个国家都在咬自己的尾巴，不停地转啊转，直到只剩下咬牙切齿。
Well, he's not going to get any nicer. He's a genocidal racist maniac. He's one of these people who thinks the world was a great place when Voldemort ruled the world. He's particularly offended by mixed-blood Mudbloods, the product of wizards and humans. So I hope he goes into therapy.
他不会变得更好的。他是个种族灭绝狂。他是那种认为伏地魔统治世界的时候世界是一个伟大的地方的人。他对巫师和人类的混血泥巴种尤其反感。所以我希望他能接受治疗。
Identification with the rag called the national flag is an emotional and sentimental factor and for that factor you are willing to kill another - and that is called, the love of your country, love of the neighbor . . .? One can see that where sentiment and emotion come in, love is not.
认同被称为国旗的破布是一种情感和感伤的因素，为了这个因素，你愿意杀害另一个人——那就是，对你的国家的爱，对邻居的爱……我们可以看到，感情和情感在哪里出现，爱就不在那里。
I just wish that somebody would just sanely sit down and talk, because who wants to fight? Animosity in any direction never serves any purpose. I just wish that somebody would just sanely sit down and talk, because who wants to fight? Animosity in any direction never serves any purpose.
我只是希望有人能理智地坐下来谈谈，因为谁想打架?任何方向的仇恨都没有任何用处。我只是希望有人能理智地坐下来谈谈，因为谁想打架?任何方向的仇恨都没有任何用处。
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You can only hate someone whom you have the capacity to love, because if you are really indifferent, you cannot even get up the enough energy to hate him.
你只能恨一个你有能力去爱的人，因为如果你真的漠不关心，你甚至没有足够的精力去恨他。
Letting go gives us freedom, and freedom is the only condition for happiness. If, in our heart, we still cling to anything - anger, anxiety, or possessions - we cannot be free.
放手给我们自由，自由是幸福的唯一条件。如果我们的内心仍然执着于任何东西——愤怒、焦虑或财产——我们就无法获得自由。
Self-determination is fine but needs to be tempered with self-control.
自我决定是好的，但是需要自我控制。
Those who are skilled in combat do not become angry. The wise win before the fight and the ignorant fight to win.
善于战斗的人不会生气。智者在战斗前获胜，愚者为胜利而战。
When we are angry or depressed in our creativity, we have misplaced our power. We have allowed someone else to determine our worth, and then we are angry at being undervalued.
当我们对自己的创造力感到愤怒或沮丧时，我们把自己的力量放错了地方。我们让别人来决定我们的价值，然后我们对被低估感到愤怒。