If two people agree on everything, one of them is unnecessary.

如果两个人在所有事情上都意见一致，其中一个是不必要的。

If we can't understand the Afghan family, we can't understand Afghanistan.

如果我们不能理解阿富汗家庭，我们就不能理解阿富汗。

If you act as good as you look, you'll never shame your family.

如果你表现得和外表一样好，你永远不会让你的家人感到羞耻。

If you asked anybody in my family, they would have very stridently proclaimed themselves middle class. My mother and father were separated, so he doesn't count.

如果你问我家里的任何一个人，他们会非常刺耳地宣称自己是中产阶级。我父母分居了，所以他不算数。

If you bungle raising your children, I don’t think whatever else you do well matters very much.

如果你把抚养孩子的事搞砸了，我认为你做得好的任何其他事情都无关紧要。

If you can capture the humanity of a family struggling in an economic crisis you can make a difference. You can raise awareness just of the simple humanity.

如果你能捕捉到一个在经济危机中挣扎的家庭的人性，你就能有所作为。你可以提高对简单人性的认识。

If you can make the family life and the music work together that's wonderful. If you can make it work.

如果你能让家庭生活和音乐一起工作，那就太好了。如果你能做到的话。

If you cannot get rid of the family skeleton, you may as well make it dance.

如果你不能摆脱家族的骨架，你不妨让它跳舞。

If you go from a structure where you have the support and that partner and that construction of a family and that's broken apart, I think that's probably a lot harder than always being a single mom and having the father being a support in another area.

如果你从一个有支持，有伴侣，有家庭建设的结构中分离出来，我认为这可能比一直做一个单身母亲，有父亲在另一个领域提供支持要困难得多。

If you love other people's children, you will love your own even more.

如果你爱别人的孩子，你会更爱你自己的孩子。

If you really want to make a friend, go to someone's house and eat with him...The people who give you their food give you their heart.

如果你真的想交个朋友，去别人家和他一起吃饭……给你食物的人把他们的心给了你。

If you search for poverty, you'll find it, often in the family. Why? Because the family makes this great investment, from which we all benefit, but for which no-one helps. We have to point the spotlight on the family, and make political choices that sustain the family.

如果你搜索贫困，你会发现它，通常在家庭中。为什么?因为这个家庭做出了巨大的投资，我们都从中受益，但没有人为此提供帮助。我们必须把注意力集中在家庭上，作出维持家庭的政治选择。

If you think you're enlightened, go spend a week with your family.

如果你觉得自己很开明，那就花一周时间和家人在一起。

If you want to really know what your friends and family think of you die broke, and then see who shows up for the funeral.

如果你真的想知道你的朋友和家人对你的看法，那就一文不名地死去，然后看看谁会来参加你的葬礼。

If you want your children to have a quiet life, let them always be a little hungry and cold.

如果你想让你的孩子有一个安静的生活，让他们总是有点饿和冷。