A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
My early wounds were the English school system among other things. It wasn't merely the discipline, it was the ways in which boys got what was called the school spirit.
我早期的创伤之一是英语学校体系。这不仅仅是纪律问题，这是男孩们获得所谓学校精神的方式。
Autumn is desolation in the plot Of a thousand acres, where these memories grow From the inexhaustible bodies that are not Dead, but feed the grass, row after rich row.
在这片一千英亩的土地上，秋天是一片荒凉，在那里，这些记忆从无穷无尽的躯体中生长出来，这些躯体没有死去，而是喂养着青草，一排又一排的肥沃。
Loneliness is my least favorite thing about life. The thing that I'm most worried about is just being alone without anybody to care for or someone who will care for me.
孤独是我生活中最不喜欢的事情。我最担心的是一个人，没有人关心，也没有人会关心我。
In the account book of the Great War the page recording the Russian losses has been ripped out. The figures are unknown. Five millions, or eight? We ourselves know not.
在第一次世界大战的帐簿上，记录俄国损失的那一页被撕掉了。具体数字不详。五百万，还是八百万?我们自己也不知道。
I saw a great many men die afterwards, some suffering horribly, but I do not recall any death that affected me quite so much as that of this first victim in my platoon.
后来我看到许多人死了，有些人死得很惨，但我想不起有谁的死对我的影响比我排的第一个牺牲者更大。
I'd forgotten what it was like to play music and have it be fun so I decided to stop. I wasn't even sure if I was going to make a new record, I was just kinda quitting.
我已经忘记了演奏音乐是什么感觉了，所以我决定停止。我甚至不确定我是否要创造一个新的记录，我只是有点放弃了。
It wasn't that I got pinned against my locker, but I was intensely aware that the things I valued weren't shared by anyone. Girls didn't like me, and I had few friends.
并不是我被钉在储物柜上，而是我强烈地意识到，我珍视的东西不会被任何人分享。女孩们不喜欢我，我也没有什么朋友。
I know what it's like to be left out... I certainly went through a period of time where I got made fun of and people were so mean to me, so I can really relate to that.
我知道被遗忘的感觉…我确实经历过一段时间，我被人取笑，人们对我很刻薄，所以我能真正理解他们。
I started crying the other day just thinking that the baby is going to leave me soon! You have this relationship with this person in your belly and it's really amazing.
前几天，我一想到孩子就要离开我了，就哭了起来。你和这个人的关系就在你的肚子里，这真的很神奇。
Yet never can he die, but dying lives, And doth himself with sorrow new sustain, That death and life attonce unto him gives, And painful pleasure turns to pleasing pain.
然而，他永远不能死，只能死得其所。他以新的悲哀支撑着自己，使死亡和生命紧紧相联，使痛苦的快乐变为愉快的痛苦。
Who will grieve for this woman? Does she not seem too insignificant for our concern? Yet in my heart I never will deny her, Who suffered death because she chose to turn.
谁会为这个女人伤心呢?对我们来说，她不是太微不足道了吗?然而在我心里，我永远不会否认她，因为她选择了回头而遭受了死亡。
They listened at his heart. Little---less---nothing!---and that ended it. No more to build on there. And they, since they Were not the one dead, turned to their affairs.
他们倾听着他的内心。小——表示“不”————没有!——事情就这样结束了。在此基础上没有更多的建设。他们既然不是死人，就各自去作自己的事。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help. That's the message he is sending.
当别人让你受苦时，那是因为他内心深处在受苦，他的痛苦正在蔓延。他不需要惩罚;他需要帮助。这就是他要传达的信息。
When you are suffering, you become more understanding about yourself, but also about other people's sufferings too. That's the first step to understand somebody is to understand their sufferings. So then love follows.
当你受苦的时候，你会对自己有更多的了解，也会对别人的痛苦有更多的了解。了解一个人的第一步就是了解他们的痛苦。于是爱随之而来。
Only in the agony of parting do we look into the depths of love.
只有在离别的痛苦中，我们才能看到爱的深处。
There is a wisdom that is woe; but there is a woe that is madness.
有一种智慧叫悲哀;但有一种悲哀是疯狂的。
It is right it should be so, Man was made for joy and woe; And when this we rightly know, Through the world we safely go.
应该如此，人是为快乐和悲伤而生的;当我们正确地认识到这一点时，我们就能安全地穿过这个世界。