A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
It's curious how we act in moments of personal despair.
令人好奇的是，我们在个人绝望的时候是如何行动的。
Behind every beautiful thing there's some kind of pain.
每一件美好事物的背后都有某种痛苦。
The only antidote to mental suffering is physical pain.
精神上痛苦的唯一解药是身体上的痛苦。
The thing that hurts the most is pretending it doesn't.
最伤人的事是假装它不疼。
I'm easily destroyed and I operate on emotional levels.
我很容易被摧毁，我在感情上很脆弱。
One half of my life has put the other half in the grave.
我的半辈子已经把另一半送进了坟墓。
I don't want the kids to go through want I went through.
我不想让孩子们经历我想要的。
A stable, changeless state, 'twere cause indeed to weep.
一种稳定、不变的状态，确实令人哭泣。
Winter is much like unrequited love; cold and merciless.
冬天很像单恋;寒冷和无情的。
I suppose I’m the one responsible for destroying myself.
我想是我毁了自己。
When you try to avoid the pain, it creates greater pain.
当你试图避免痛苦时，它会产生更大的痛苦。
For a sensation to be felt as pain is for it to be pain.
要让一种感觉像疼痛一样被感知，就必须让它成为疼痛。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help. That's the message he is sending.
当别人让你受苦时，那是因为他内心深处在受苦，他的痛苦正在蔓延。他不需要惩罚;他需要帮助。这就是他要传达的信息。
He who can conceal his joys, is greater than he who can hide his griefs.
能隐藏快乐的人，比能隐藏悲伤的人更伟大。
Do not be afraid that joy will make the pain worse; it is needed like the air we breathe.
不要害怕快乐会使痛苦加剧;它就像我们呼吸的空气一样是需要的。
There's a false perception that women in Africa somehow don't love their babies they way we do, don't grieve their loss the way we would. That is simply not true.
有一种错误的观念认为非洲的妇女不像我们一样爱她们的孩子，不像我们一样为失去孩子而悲伤。但事实并非如此。
The deeper that sorrow carves into your being the more joy you can contain. Is not the cup that holds your wine the very cup that was burned in the potter's oven?
悲伤在你身上刻得越深，你就能包含越多的快乐。那盛着你酒的杯，不正是在陶匠的窑里烧过的杯吗?