A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
Death is as casual-and often as unexpected-as birth. It is as difficult to define grief as joy. Each is finite. Each will fade.
死亡和出生一样是偶然的，也常常是出人意料的。悲伤和快乐一样难以定义。都是有限的。每个会褪色。
Like most, I was a solitary boy at first, keeping to my books and weeping in the hedgerows whenever I could get away on my own.
和大多数人一样，一开始我是一个孤独的孩子，我守着我的书，只要我能独自离开，我就在树篱里哭泣。
If you have ever been in a real tragic or sad situation, the words that come out are hopelessly inadequate and kind of cliched.
如果你曾经经历过一场真正的悲剧或悲伤，那么你说出来的话就完全是陈词滥调了。
Losing my parents really set me adrift in more ways than one. It's not just losing them. It's losing the possibility of family.
失去父母让我在很多方面迷失了方向。不仅仅是失去他们。失去了家庭的可能性。
I listened, motionless and still; And, as I mounted up the hill, The music in my heart I bore, Long after it was heard no more.
我静静地听着，一动不动。当我爬上山时，那音乐在我心中久久回荡，尽管早已听不见了。
There is a moment when nothing can be wiped out and left behind any more, when there is only reality and reality is horrifying.
有那么一刻，没有什么可以被抹去，也没有什么可以被留下，只有现实，而现实是可怕的。
I don’t know what’s worse: to not know what you are and be happy, or to become what you’ve always wanted to be, and feel alone.
我不知道什么更糟糕:不知道自己是什么，却感到快乐，或者成为你一直想成为的人，却感到孤独。
It is naught but pain and regret when we think of the things and people we will never have, the opportunities we may never get.
当我们想到那些我们永远不会拥有的人和事，那些我们可能永远得不到的机会时，除了痛苦和遗憾，什么也没有。
If you ask yourself the question "was it really worth the pain" the answer might surprise you because the sun is worth the rain.
如果你问自己“这真的值得付出这么多痛苦吗”，答案可能会让你大吃一惊，因为阳光和雨水是值得的。
I have always fought for ideas - until I learned that it isn't ideas but grief, struggle, and flashes of vision which enlighten.
我一直在为思想而战——直到我明白，启迪我的不是思想，而是悲伤、斗争和灵光一现。
I know the only reason that I haven't gotten many good parts is because I am Latin - and they tell it to my face a lot of times.
我知道我没有得到很多好角色的唯一原因是因为我是拉丁人——他们经常当面告诉我。
Adversity is sometimes hard upon a man; but for one man who can stand prosperity, there are a hundred that will stand adversity.
逆境有时对人是艰难的;但对于一个能忍受顺境的人来说，有一百个人能忍受逆境。
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沿着这个主题，再读几句。
There is a wisdom that is woe; but there is a woe that is madness.
有一种智慧叫悲哀;但有一种悲哀是疯狂的。
There's a false perception that women in Africa somehow don't love their babies they way we do, don't grieve their loss the way we would. That is simply not true.
有一种错误的观念认为非洲的妇女不像我们一样爱她们的孩子，不像我们一样为失去孩子而悲伤。但事实并非如此。
Only in the agony of parting do we look into the depths of love.
只有在离别的痛苦中，我们才能看到爱的深处。
Humility rests upon the shores of your sorrows and blossoms upon the mountain of your faith.
谦卑落在你忧患的岸边，盛开在你信心的山上。
Loving can cost a lot but not loving always costs more, and those who fear to love often find that want of love is an emptiness that robs the joy from life.
爱会付出很多，但不爱的代价往往更高，那些害怕爱的人往往发现，缺少爱是一种空虚，会夺走生活的乐趣。
It is not about forcing happiness. It is about not letting sadness win.
这不是强迫幸福。而是不要让悲伤获胜。