A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
Through my attempt to get pregnant through IVF, we sadly found out that I have early stages of breast cancer. It's been a shock.
在我尝试通过试管受精怀孕的过程中，我们遗憾地发现我患有早期乳腺癌。我很震惊。
Over the years I've seen people lose a spouse and then withdraw and lose interest in life, and I believe we need to resist that.
多年来，我看到人们失去配偶，然后退缩，对生活失去兴趣，我相信我们需要抵制这种情况。
I remember the way we parted, The day and the way we met; You hoped we were both broken-hearted, And knew we should both forget.
我还记得我们分开的日子，我们相遇的日子;你希望我们都心碎了，知道我们都应该忘记。
Every human walks around with a certain kind of sadness. They may not wear it on their sleeves, but it's there if you look deep.
每个人都带着某种悲伤四处走动。他们可能不会把它穿在袖子上，但如果你深入观察，就会发现它就在那里。
My mother was a woman who was very frustrated. She had a great deal of ability, and all this energy went into me and my brother.
我母亲是一个非常沮丧的女人。她很有能力，所有的精力都集中在我和我哥哥身上。
Its unfortunate and I really wish I wouldn't have to say this, but I really like human beings who have suffered. They're kinder.
这是不幸的，我真的希望我不会说这些，但我真的喜欢受苦的人。他们友善。
My particular grief Is of so floodgate and o’erbearing nature That it engluts and swallows other sorrows, And it is still itself.
我特别的悲伤是如此的闸门和宽容的性质，它吞下和吞咽其他的悲伤，它仍然是它自己。
No matter how prepared you think you are for the death of a loved one, it still comes as a shock, and it still hurts very deeply.
无论你认为自己对所爱之人的死亡有多么的准备，它仍然会让你感到震惊，仍然会让你感到深深的伤痛。
People suffer because they are caught in their views. As soon as we release those views, we are free and we don't suffer anymore.
人们之所以痛苦，是因为他们被自己的观点困住了。一旦我们发布了这些观点，我们就自由了，我们不再受苦了。
Heaven knows we need never be ashamed of our tears, for they are rain upon the blinding dust of earth, overlying our hard hearts.
天知道我们永远不需要为我们的眼泪感到羞耻，因为它们是雨落在我们坚硬的心灵上的眩目的尘土上。
Before you know what kindness really is you must lose things, feel the future dissolve in a moment like salt in a weakened broth.
在你知道什么是真正的善良之前，你必须先失去一些东西，感觉未来就像盐溶在淡汤里。
The seed of suffering in you may be strong, but don't wait until you have no more suffering before allowing yourself to be happy.
也许你内心深处的痛苦的种子很坚强，但是不要等到你不再痛苦的时候才让自己快乐起来。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
Pain fades, but the lessons that you learn, always stay right there with you.
痛苦会消失，但你学到的教训，永远与你同在。
When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help. That's the message he is sending.
当别人让你受苦时，那是因为他内心深处在受苦，他的痛苦正在蔓延。他不需要惩罚;他需要帮助。这就是他要传达的信息。
There is no worse sorrow than remembering happiness in the day of sorrow.
在悲伤的日子里回忆快乐，是最痛苦的事情。
The walls we build around us to keep sadness out also keeps out the joy.
我们在自己周围筑起的阻挡悲伤的墙也阻挡了快乐。
The worst solitude is to have no real friendships.
最糟糕的孤独是没有真正的友谊。