A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
愤怒
Anger
Hatred is always a sin, my mother told me. Remember that. One drop of hatred in your soul will spread and discolor everything like a drop of black ink in white milk. I was struck by that and meant to try it, but knew I shouldn’t waste the milk.
母亲告诉我，仇恨永远是一种罪恶。记住这一点。你灵魂中的一滴仇恨就会像一滴白牛奶里的墨汁一样扩散开来，让一切都褪色。我很震惊，想试试，但我知道我不应该浪费牛奶。
I think I would cope like anyone copes with any tragedy. I'm sure I would be very upset for a while and then there would come a point where I would either have to stay in this place of darkness and anger, or I'd have to accept that it happened.
我想我会像任何人处理任何悲剧一样去处理。我肯定我会很难过一段时间，然后会有一个点，我要么呆在这个黑暗和愤怒的地方，要么我会接受它发生了。
I will not let myself down like that, ... I have a lot of amazing women, you know, women in my life who have been an example for me of what not to do. So, and I also know what feels good, and it doesn't feel good to harbor anger and resentment.
我不会那样让自己失望的。我有很多了不起的女人，你知道，在我的生活中，她们是我不应该做什么的榜样。所以，我也知道什么感觉很好，而怀有愤怒和怨恨的感觉并不好。
The great European dream was to diminish militant nationalism. We would all be happy Europeans together. But we are going to see the old monster of militant nationalism being awoken when people realise how little control their politicians have.
伟大的欧洲梦是消除激进的民族主义。我们都将成为快乐的欧洲人。但我们将看到，当人们意识到他们的政客几乎没有什么控制力时，好战的民族主义这个老怪物就会被唤醒。
Some say the world will end in fire, Some say in ice. From what I've tasted of desire, I hold with those who favor fire. But if it had to perish twice I think I know enough of hate To say that for destruction ice Is also great And would suffice.
有人说世界将在大火中毁灭， 有人说在冰上。 从我尝过的欲望中， 我支持那些喜欢火的人。 但如果它必须灭亡两次 我想我已经受够了仇恨 说是为了毁灭冰 也是伟大的 并就足够了。
She once used me with that insolence that in revenge I took her to pieces; sifted her, and separated her failings; I studied ’em, and got ’em by rote. The catalogue was so large that I was not without hopes, one day or other, to hate her heartily.
有一次，她利用我的时候，态度蛮横无礼，为了报复，我把她打得粉碎;筛选她，把她的缺点分开;我研究过，而且是死记硬背的。书单上写得那么多，我总有一天会对她恨之入骨。
A physician is not angry at the intemperance of a mad patient, nor does he take it ill to be railed at by a man in fever. Just so should a wise man treat all mankind, as a physician does his patient, and look upon them only as sick and extravagant.
医生不会因病人的放纵而生气，也不会因为一个发烧的人责骂他而生气。一个明智的人应该像一个医生对待他的病人那样对待全人类，而只把他们看作是病态和奢侈的。
Said these people were good and those people were evil, and it kept going, because people always responded, and pretty soon the place was a roaring hell because no one took responsibility for what they did, and how it would drive others to respond.
说这些人是好人，那些人是坏人，事情还在继续，因为人们总是做出反应，很快这个地方就变成了一个咆哮的地狱，因为没有人为他们的行为负责，也没有人为他们的行为负责，也没有人为他们的行为负责。
I found out about reviews early on. They're mostly written by sad men on bad afternoons. That's probably why I'm less angry than some writers, who are so narcissistic they consider every line of every review, even a thoughtful one, as major treason.
我很早就发现了评论。它们大多是悲伤的人在糟糕的下午写的。这可能就是为什么我没有一些作家那么愤怒的原因，他们是如此自恋，他们认为每一篇评论的每一行，甚至是一个深思熟虑的评论，都是重大的背叛。
To be angry about trifles is mean and childish; to rage and be furious is brutish; and to maintain perpetual wrath is akin to the practice and temper of devils; but to prevent and suppress rising resentment is wise and glorious, is manly and divine.
为琐事生气是卑鄙和幼稚的;发怒发怒是畜类的事。保持永远的愤怒，类似于魔鬼的行为和脾气;但是，防止和抑制日益增长的怨恨是明智而光荣的，是勇敢而神圣的。
You've just got to have a sense of respect for the person you have children with. Anger doesn't help anybody. Ultimately you have to say forgiveness is important, and honoring what you had together is important. But it's easy to say and harder to do.
你只需要对和你有孩子的人有一种尊重的感觉。愤怒帮不了任何人。最后，你必须说原谅是重要的，尊重你们一起拥有的是重要的。但是说起来容易做起来难。
We may overcompensate for our feelings of powerlessness by attempting to control and manipulate other people and our environment. Or we may eventually burst forth with uncontrolled rage that is highly exaggerated and distorted by its long suppression.
我们可能通过试图控制和操纵他人和我们的环境来过度补偿我们的无力感。或者我们可能最终爆发出无法控制的愤怒，这种愤怒被长期的压抑严重夸大和扭曲了。
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Love and anger are like land and sea: They meet at many different places.
爱和愤怒就像陆地和海洋:它们在许多不同的地方相遇。
If you are patient in a moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow.
如果你能在愤怒的时刻保持耐心，你就能逃避一百天的悲伤。
The defense of our rights and our dignity, as well as efforts never to let ourselves to be overcome by the feeling of hatred - this is the road we have chosen.
捍卫我们的权利和尊严，以及绝不让自己被仇恨情绪所压倒的努力——这是我们选择的道路。
It is wise to direct your anger towards problems - not people; to focus your energies on answers - not excuses.
明智的做法是把愤怒指向问题，而不是人;把你的精力集中在答案上，而不是借口。
When love is suppressed hate takes its place.
当爱被压抑时，取而代之的是恨。