A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
分手
Break Up
It's disconcerting to realize how little you have to say to someone who once occupied such a prominent place in your bed.
当你意识到你对一个曾经在你床上占据如此重要位置的人说的话是多么少时，你会感到不安。
It’s a funny kind of month, October. For the really keen cricket fan it’s when you realise that your wife left you in May.
十月是个有趣的月份。对于一个真正狂热的板球迷来说，是当你意识到你的妻子在五月离开了你的时候。
I wrote that song after a breakup. Its like, where a couple of weeks go by, and you still find yourself in love with your ex.
那首歌是我分手后写的。就像，几个星期过去了，你仍然发现自己爱上了你的前任。
The time it takes to feel better about a breakup is directly proportional to the time it takes to feel better about yourself.
分手后自我感觉良好的时间与自我感觉良好的时间成正比。
I cry, but not because i need you back. Not because i want you. But because i finally realize I'm learning how to let you go.
我哭泣，不是因为我需要你回来。不是因为我需要你。但因为我终于意识到我正在学习如何放手。
Baby I don't understand. Just why we can't be lovers. Things are getting out of hand. Trying too much, but baby we can't win.
宝贝，我不明白。这就是为什么我们不能成为恋人。事情正在失去控制。尝试太多，但宝贝，我们不能赢。
My marriage was breaking up, and my marriage with Chong was breaking up. I had to come back and kind of start on my own again.
我的婚姻正在破裂，我和钟的婚姻也在破裂。我必须回来，重新开始我自己的生活。
If you say, I love you, then you have already fallen in love with language, which is already a form of break up and infidelity.
如果你说，我爱你，那么你已经爱上了语言，这已经是一种分手和不忠的形式。
I remember the way we parted, The day and the way we met; You hoped we were both broken-hearted, And knew we should both forget.
我还记得我们分开的日子，我们相遇的日子;你希望我们都心碎了，知道我们都应该忘记。
We ignore each other & try to pretend the other person doesn't exist, but deep down we know it wasn't supposed to end like this.
我们忽视对方，假装对方不存在，但在内心深处，我们知道不应该这样结束。
If you're in a relationship and they tell you they just wanna talk, what they're really saying is I really don't wanna be with you.
如果你在谈恋爱，他们告诉你他们只是想聊天，他们真正想说的是我真的不想和你在一起。
Divorce isn't the child's fault. Don't say anything unkind about your ex to the child, because you're really just hurting the child.
离婚不是孩子的错。不要对孩子说任何关于你前任的坏话，因为你只是在伤害孩子。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
My ex-wife, she really didn't like the material that I did. And that's something I regret, that I wasn't more careful about making sure that she was O.K. with it. I just sort of didn't ask. So that's how that goes.
我的前妻，她真的不喜欢我的作品。这是我感到遗憾的一点，我没有更小心地确保她能接受。我只是没问。就是这样。
I wish we'd never got divorced. He and I both wish we'd never got divorced, but we did. I wish I could go back and be the bride again, but I can't.
我希望我们从未离婚。他和我都希望我们永远不要离婚，但我们离婚了。我希望我能回去再做新娘，但是我不能。
One way to break up any kind of tension is good deep breathing.
打破紧张的一个方法就是深呼吸。
I've spent the last year and a half going through a very public separation, hiding in hotel lobbies.
在过去的一年半里，我躲在酒店大堂里，经历了一次非常公开的分居。
A break up is the closest thing to bereavement.
分手是离丧亲之痛最近的事。
One of the hardest things you'll ever have to do is to stop loving someone because they've stopped loving you.
你要做的最困难的事情之一就是停止爱一个人，因为他们已经不再爱你了。