A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
分手
Break Up
We got our split. We're not in a terrible situation. We could definitely be in a better situation, but stuff happens and we've got to rebound from it.
我们分手了。我们的处境并不糟糕。我们当然可以处于一个更好的处境，但是事情发生了，我们必须从中恢复过来。
I just broke up with my boyfriend, so I'm officially single. But one thing I find unbelievably annoying is all these guys in my life who want to save me.
我刚和男朋友分手，所以我正式单身了。但是，有一件事让我感到难以置信的讨厌，那就是我生命中所有这些想救我的人。
The divorce is a regret of mine and my mum thinks that we should have stayed together. He's now remarried so there's no chance of us getting back together.
离婚是我的一个遗憾，我妈妈认为我们应该呆在一起。他现在再婚了，所以我们不可能再在一起了。
I said 'It can't go on' and he said 'No, it can't.' Honestly, I don't think I could have mattered less to him by then. But by then, nothing mattered to him.
我说‘不能再继续了’，他说‘不行，不能再继续了’。“说实话，我不认为那时我对他没有什么不重要的。但到那时，他已经无所谓了。
I decided I was going to be in love. I was going to give it everything I had. It was like heaven on that ranch. I don't know why we broke up. We never fought.
我决定我要恋爱了。我要尽我所能。那牧场就像天堂一样。我不知道我们为什么分手。我们从不吵架。
You know what is the worst thing about being rejected? The lack of control. If I could only control the where and how of being dumped, it wouldnt seem as bad.
你知道被拒绝最糟糕的是什么吗?缺乏控制。如果我能控制被甩的地点和方式，事情就不会那么糟糕了。
We were pretty good mates until the Beatles started to split up and Yoko came into it. It was more like old army buddies splitting up on account of wedding bells.
在披头士乐队解散之前，我们一直是很好的朋友，后来洋子也加入了乐队。这更像是老战友为了婚礼的钟声而分手。
I went through my first big breakup, with a boyfriend who I had been with for more than two years. He had been one of my dancers, and it was my first love and his.
我经历了我的第一次大分手，和我交往了两年多的男朋友。他曾经是我的一个舞者，那是我和他的初恋。
The band broke up because I couldn't bear Rotten anymore because he was an embarrassment with his silly hats and his, like, shabby, dirty, nasty looking appearance.
乐队解散了，因为我再也不能忍受烂人了，因为他戴着一顶傻傻的帽子，他那破旧、肮脏、难看的样子让我觉得很尴尬。
I thought the divorce statistics would never apply to me. I was beyond heartbroken when they did. But I got up and got on with it. I also kept my belief in marriage.
我以为离婚统计数字对我不适用。当他们那样做的时候，我伤心透了。但我还是站了起来，继续干下去。我也保持着对婚姻的信仰。
Sometimes when you're with somebody, and all their stuff is at your house, it's so hard to break up with them. You don't know what they're going to wreck and destroy.
有时候当你和一个人在一起，他们的东西都在你家里，你很难和他们分手。你不知道他们会破坏什么。
All my ex-girlfriends or wives are all kind of great friends and I've never understood somebody who can live with somebody for five or six years and then not like them.
我所有的前女友或妻子都是很好的朋友，我从来都不理解一个人能和一个人住上五六年却不喜欢他们。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
I would have thought this would make me feel better.. getting to be the one to leave and not the one left behind. But it didn't. Not at all.
我本以为这样会让我好受些。成为那个离开的人，而不是那个被遗忘的人。但它没有。不客气。
When it comes to relationships, I find it best to have two feet out the door.
说到人际关系，我觉得最好的办法是迈出这扇门。
I stand still for a long time, holding the note, and let it all sink in. Her leaving is almost palpable like a gale-force wind that’s rolled into my life in the span of a single evening and left behind all this incalculable destruction, both inside and out.
我一动不动地站了很长一段时间，手里拿着那张纸条，让它沉了下去。她的离去就像一股狂风，在短短一个晚上就卷进了我的生活，从里到外都留下了无法估量的破坏。
I really enjoy being single again. I spent a lot of time in a relationship and the nearer we came to the end, the more difficult it got. You don't see things clearly as long as you're still involved.
我真的很喜欢再次单身。我花了很多时间在一段关系上，我们越接近结束，就越困难。只要你还参与其中，你就看不清事情。
(On seeing a former lover for the first time in years) I thought I told you to wait in the car.
(多年来第一次见到以前的爱人)我想我告诉过你在车里等着。
One way to break up any kind of tension is good deep breathing.
打破紧张的一个方法就是深呼吸。