A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
分手
Break Up
I couldn't put my finger on one reason why we broke up. It was time, and we were spreading out. They were spreading out more than I was. I would've stayed with the band.
我说不清我们分手的原因。是时候了，我们要散开了。他们比我分散得多。我会留在乐队。
I can still love an ex as a person, regardless if the breakup was bad. I would never wish anything negative on them. It takes more energy to hate them than to wish them well.
我仍然可以像爱一个人一样爱前任，不管分手是否糟糕。我从不希望他们有任何负面的东西。恨他们比祝福他们需要更多的能量。
Until I separated from Parker, I had never been without them-and it's the hardest thing to share them. But we're trying to give the children the semblance of having whole lives.
在我和帕克分开之前，我从来没有离开过他们——和他们分享是最难的。但我们试图给孩子们一种拥有完整人生的假象。
I doubt if there is one married person on earth who can be objective about divorce. It is always a threat, admittedly or not, and such a dire threat that it is almost a dirty word.
我怀疑世界上是否有一个结了婚的人能对离婚持客观态度。无论承认与否，它总是一种威胁，而且这种可怕的威胁几乎成了一个肮脏的字眼。
I went through a divorce right as we were starting the show. My divorce became final right after we started shooting the first year, and during that time I was in such a low place.
就在我们开始节目的时候，我离婚了。在我们开始拍摄的第一年，我的离婚就成了定局，在这段时间里，我处于一个很低的位置。
I wrote most of these songs right before the end. A lot of these songs are about that. Even if it's not direct, you can feel the beginning of the end of the breakup in these songs.
这些歌大部分是我在结尾之前写的。很多歌曲都是关于这个的。即使不是直接的，你也可以在这些歌曲中感受到分手的开始。
People that go through what I went through and people going through divorce, it's really a difficulty process; it's heartbreaking and it hurts really bad. It can really mess with your head.
那些经历过我经历过的事情的人，那些经历过离婚的人，这真的是一个艰难的过程;这让人心碎，真的很疼。它真的会弄乱你的头。
Sir, you and I must part; but that’s not it. Sir, you and I have loved; but there’s not it; That you know well. Something it is I would O, my oblivion is a very Antony, And I am all forgotten.
先生，你和我必须分手;但事实并非如此。先生，你和我都爱过;但事实并非如此;你知道的很清楚。哦，我的遗忘是一种非常安东尼式的东西，我全被遗忘了。
My thinking was scrambled when Sullivan and I separated. Something happened to me that had never happend before. I couldn't cope. It was heartbreak time. I thought it was the end of the world.
当苏利文和我分手时，我的思绪一片混乱。我发生了一件以前从未发生过的事。我不能应付。那是令人心碎的时刻。我以为这是世界末日。
There were times after my marriage ended where, you know, I really felt like I was at the bottom of a mountain, there was a great big, fog up there, and I'm never going to cross to the other side.
在我的婚姻结束后，有几次，你知道，我真的觉得我是在一座山的底部，那里有一个很大的雾，我永远不会跨越到另一边。
Men are going to go out on the road and they're going to find other women. So if you really want to save yourself a whole lot of heartache, do not fall in love with somebody in a band. Just don't.
男人会出门，他们会找到其他女人。所以，如果你真的想让自己免于很多心痛，就不要爱上乐队里的某个人。只是不喜欢。
But I will agree that I think that things happen with people in relationships, that you might have been able to enjoy Morocco, say, if you weren't getting out of a bad marriage. You know what I mean?
但我同意，我认为恋爱中的人会有这样的事情发生，如果你没有从一段糟糕的婚姻中走出来，你也许可以享受摩洛哥的生活。你明白我的意思吗?
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
I'd think,'In a relationship, we should never have his kind of fight.' Then, instead of figuring out how to make it work, I looked for a way to get out of it. The truth is, you shouldn't be married if your that kind of person.
我想，在一段感情中，我们永远不应该有他那样的争吵。然后，我没有想办法让它运作起来，而是想办法摆脱它。事实上，如果你是那种人，你就不应该结婚。
I stand still for a long time, holding the note, and let it all sink in. Her leaving is almost palpable like a gale-force wind that’s rolled into my life in the span of a single evening and left behind all this incalculable destruction, both inside and out.
我一动不动地站了很长一段时间，手里拿着那张纸条，让它沉了下去。她的离去就像一股狂风，在短短一个晚上就卷进了我的生活，从里到外都留下了无法估量的破坏。
The person who wants out of the relationship always gets her way.
想要摆脱这段关系的人总是能如愿以偿。
One way to break up any kind of tension is good deep breathing.
打破紧张的一个方法就是深呼吸。
Gotta change my answering machine. Now that I'm alone. Cause right now it says that we, can't come to the phone.
我要换电话答录机。现在我一个人。因为现在它说我们不能接电话。
Sobering up was responsible for breaking up my marriage. That's what it couldn't stand.
清醒是我婚姻破裂的原因。这就是它所不能忍受的。