A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
分手
Break Up
I really enjoy being single again. I spent a lot of time in a relationship and the nearer we came to the end, the more difficult it got. You don't see things clearly as long as you're still involved.
我真的很喜欢再次单身。我花了很多时间在一段关系上，我们越接近结束，就越困难。只要你还参与其中，你就看不清事情。
Break-ups are hard for anybody, but it's particularly tough when it's being documented and you see the person's picture everywhere. Most people don't have that added problem when they break up with someone.
分手对任何人来说都是件难事，但当它被记录下来，而且你到处都能看到那个人的照片时，分手就更困难了。大多数人在和别人分手时不会有这种额外的问题。
And from my place, and from the time that I went through my divorce, I also had my father pass away in the middle of all that. And it kind of made everything else just kind of like the back burner, you know.
在我离婚的时候，我的父亲也在我离婚的时候去世了。这让其他事情都成了次要的事情。
It was funny actually because that was still during the time we were dating. He would get all these calls because supposedly before we broke up, we had already broken up in the trades, in the rags or whatever.
其实很有趣，因为那还是我们约会的时候。他会接到所有这些电话，因为据说在我们分手之前，我们已经在交易中分手了，在破衣烂衫中分手了。
Breaking up is a natural evolution when you try to figure out what you want in life. If you're with an individual who isn't moving in the same direction and at the same rate that you are, it ain't going to work.
分手是一种自然的进化，当你试图弄清楚你想要的生活是什么。如果你和一个和你步调不一致的人在一起，那是行不通的。
Breaking up is just hard, even if you're the one breaking up. It's not fun. It can be dramatic and complicated. And then you get a little distance and you think, why did it have to be so complicated and dramatic?
分手很难，即使你是那个分手的人。这不是有趣的。它可以是戏剧性的和复杂的。然后你走了一段距离，你想，为什么要这么复杂和戏剧化?
I'm going through a divorce now. This is the second one, and like baseball, I'm not gonna get three strikes. I've been living by myself for five years and I'm very comfortable. I can play my guitar when I want to.
我正在办理离婚。这是第二个，就像棒球一样，我不会三振出局。我已经一个人住了五年了，我很舒服。我可以在我想弹吉他的时候弹。
My ex-wife, she really didn't like the material that I did. And that's something I regret, that I wasn't more careful about making sure that she was O.K. with it. I just sort of didn't ask. So that's how that goes.
我的前妻，她真的不喜欢我的作品。这是我感到遗憾的一点，我没有更小心地确保她能接受。我只是没问。就是这样。
If you break up with a girlfriend or a boyfriend, you're in this vulnerable state where you're still kind of half in the relationship with them, but you're single, and it takes a while to feel solid in yourself again.
如果你和一个女朋友或男朋友分手了，你就处于这种脆弱的状态，你仍然和他们保持着一半的关系，但是你是单身，你需要一段时间来重新找回自信。
When Julia and I broke up and I was really scared to go into a market or anywhere because I thought, 'Oh God, everyone must hate me. And that wasn't the case. People said, 'I'm sorry this happened, man. Are you alright?'
当茱莉亚和我分手的时候，我真的很害怕去市场或任何地方，因为我想，‘哦，上帝，每个人一定都恨我。但事实并非如此。人们说，‘我很抱歉发生了这样的事，伙计。你还好吗?”
I didn't expect to be doing a whole bunch of Amber Browns. And because it was just one book, and the father had moved away, I didn't realize I was going to have to deal more with shared custody, divorce and all those issues.
我没想到会做这么多琥珀色的棕色。因为只有一本书，而且父亲已经搬走了，我没有意识到我将不得不更多地处理共同监护权、离婚和所有这些问题。
I'd think,'In a relationship, we should never have his kind of fight.' Then, instead of figuring out how to make it work, I looked for a way to get out of it. The truth is, you shouldn't be married if your that kind of person.
我想，在一段感情中，我们永远不应该有他那样的争吵。然后，我没有想办法让它运作起来，而是想办法摆脱它。事实上，如果你是那种人，你就不应该结婚。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
One way to break up any kind of tension is good deep breathing.
打破紧张的一个方法就是深呼吸。
I think the most beautiful thing is that we're not parting because there were problems. We're parting because we're celebrating each others' growth.
我认为最美好的事情是我们没有因为有问题而分开。我们分手是因为我们在庆祝彼此的成长。
Sometimes the person you want the most, Is the person you're best without.
有时候，你最想要的人，恰恰是你最不需要的那个人。
I wish you told me from the start that you were gonna break my heart.
我希望你从一开始就告诉我，你会伤透我的心。
Divorce = Rebirth: forget the past, replan your life, improve your appearance & rejuvenate!
离婚=重生:忘记过去，重新规划你的生活，改善你的外表，让你重新焕发青春!
She got the magazine on a Wednesday morning, and on Thursday announced our marriage was over.
她是在周三早上拿到这本杂志的，周四她宣布我们的婚姻结束了。