A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
婚姻
Marriage
The heart of marriage is memories; and if the two of you happen to have the same ones and can savor your reruns, then your marriage is a gift from the gods.
婚姻的核心是回忆;如果你们两个碰巧拥有相同的另一半,并且能够欣赏你们的重播,那么你们的婚姻就是上帝赐予的礼物。
Newlyweds, they have this ideal, this picture of what marriage is like, something similar of their favorite memories growing up. If only it were that simple.
新婚夫妇,他们有这样的理想,这幅婚姻的图景,类似于他们成长过程中最喜欢的记忆。要是有那么简单就好了。
I firmly believe in marriage. It's a real important decision that takes a lot of dedication and time. If you're thinking about divorce. You shouldn't get married.
我坚信婚姻。这是一个非常重要的决定,需要投入大量的精力和时间。如果你正在考虑离婚。你不应该结婚。
To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot and love him a little. To be happy with a woman you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.
要想和一个男人幸福相处,你必须多了解他,少爱他。要想和一个女人幸福地生活在一起,你必须非常爱她,而不是试图去理解她。
I figure no matter how old you are, it's always going to be your first marriage and no life experience is going to make you a better judge of who you should marry.
我想,无论你多大,这都将是你的第一次婚姻,没有任何生活经验能让你更好地判断你应该嫁给谁。
My parents had a wonderful marriage, but it was a very dependent relationship. My mother was entirely dependent on my father because that's how it was in those days.
我的父母有一个美好的婚姻,但这是一个非常依赖的关系。我的母亲完全依赖我的父亲,因为那时候就是这样。
There is nothing nobler or more admirable than when two people who see eye to eye keep house as man and wife, confounding their enemies and delighting their friends.
没有什么比这更高贵或更令人钦佩的了,当两个人以夫妻的身份相视而居,使他们的敌人感到迷惑,使他们的朋友感到高兴。
Marriage resembles a pair of shears, so joined that they cannot be separated; often moving in opposite directions, yet always punishing anyone who comes between them.
婚姻就像一把剪刀,连在一起却不能分开;经常朝相反的方向移动,却总是惩罚任何挡在他们中间的人。
There is nothing wrong with your marriage if you're dealing with bills and kids and the broken garbage disposal and in-laws and work demands. That's a normal marriage.
如果你要处理账单、孩子、破碎的垃圾处理、姻亲和工作需求,你的婚姻就没有什么问题。这是正常的婚姻。
There's an element of tongue-in-cheek in every one of our songs. Walking off into the sunset, holding hands, and being married forever was not exactly a brand new idea.
我们的每首歌都有一种半开玩笑的成分。走到夕阳下,牵着手,永远结婚并不是一个全新的想法。
They're talking about banning cigarette smoking now in any place that's used by ten or more people in a week, which, I guess, means that Madonna can't even smoke in bed.
他们现在正在讨论禁止在一周内被十个人或更多的人使用的任何地方吸烟,我想,这意味着麦当娜甚至不能在床上吸烟。
In marriage do thou be wise: prefer the person before money, virtue before beauty, the mind before the body; then thou hast a wife, a friend, a companion, a second self.
在婚姻中,你要明智:宁可为人而不顾金钱,宁愿美德而不顾美貌,宁愿思想而不顾身体;那么你就有了妻子、朋友、伴侣和第二个自我。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题,再读几句。
Men have a much better time of it than women. For one thing, they marry later; for another thing, they die earlier.
男人比女人过得好得多。首先,他们结婚晚;另一方面,他们死得早。
I know in my own marriage I stayed in it to provide my son with what I thought was a stable background and to give him what I thought was the family life a child should have with two parents. But that isn't always the best way, and it took me taking my son to therapy after the divorce to really see it.
我知道在我自己的婚姻中,我留下来是为了给我的儿子提供一个我认为是稳定的背景,给他一个我认为是一个孩子应该拥有的家庭生活。但这并不总是最好的方式,离婚后我带儿子去看了心理治疗,才真正体会到这一点。
Smart man + smart woman = romance. Smart man + dumb woman = affair. Dumb man + smart woman = marrige. Dumb man + dumb woman = pregnancy.
聪明男人+聪明女人=浪漫。 聪明的男人+愚蠢的女人=婚外情。 愚蠢的男人+聪明的女人=婚姻。 愚蠢的男人+愚蠢的女人=怀孕。
My marriage? Up to now everything's okay. But it's a real marriage - imperfect and very difficult. It's all about people evolving somewhat simultaneously through their lives. I think we've emotionally evolved.
我的婚姻?到目前为止一切都很好。但这是一段真实的婚姻——不完美,非常艰难。这一切都是关于人们在他们的生活中同时进化。我认为我们已经在情感上进化了。
Attainment is followed by neglect, possession by disgust, and the malicious remark of the Greek epigrammatist on marriage may be applied to many another course of life, that its two days of happiness are the first and the last
获得之后,随之而来的是忽视,占有之后是厌恶,希腊警句家关于婚姻的恶毒评论也可以应用于许多其他的人生道路,即婚姻的两天是幸福的开始和结束
Marriage is not just spiritual communion, it is also remembering to take out the trash.
婚姻不仅仅是精神上的交流,它也是记住扔掉垃圾。