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同理心
Empathy
The struggle of my life created empathy - I could relate to pain, being abandoned, having people not love me.
我生命中的挣扎创造了同理心——我能体会到痛苦、被抛弃、没有人爱我。
As you get older you have more respect and empathy for your parents. Now I have a great relationship with both of them.
随着年龄的增长，你会对父母有更多的尊重和同情。现在我和他们两人都有很好的关系。
A little anger is a good thing if it isn't on your own behalf, if it's for others deserving of your anger, your empathy.
如果不是为了你自己，如果是为了那些值得你生气的人，你的同情心，那么一点点的愤怒是一件好事。
Good fiction creates empathy. A novel takes you somewhere and asks you to look through the eyes of another person, to live another life.
好的小说创造同理心。一部小说带你去某个地方，让你透过另一个人的眼睛去看另一个人，去过另一种生活。
If the earth does grow inhospitable toward human presence, it is primarily because we have lost our sense of courtesy toward the earth and its inhabitants.
如果地球确实变得不适合人类居住，那主要是因为我们对地球和地球上的居民失去了礼貌。
I always think that if you look at anyone in detail, you will have empathy for them because you recognize them as a human being, no matter what they've done.
我一直认为，如果你仔细观察每个人，你会对他们产生同理心，因为无论他们做了什么，你都能认出他们是一个人。
It's got to do with putting yourself in other people's shoes and seeing how far you can come to truly understand them. I like the empathy that comes from acting.
而是要设身处地为别人着想，看看自己能在多大程度上真正理解他们。我喜欢表演带来的共鸣。
Empathy is really the opposite of spiritual meanness. It's the capacity to understand that every war is both won and lost. And that someone else's pain is as meaningful as your own.
同理心其实是精神吝啬的对立面。这是理解每一场战争的输赢的能力。别人的痛苦和你自己的一样有意义。
So when you are listening to somebody, completely, attentively, then you are listening not only to the words, but also to the feeling of what is being conveyed, to the whole of it, not part of it.
所以当你全神贯注地听别人说话时，你不仅是在听他说的话，而且是在听他所表达的感情，是在听他说话的全部内容，而不是其中的一部分。
Learning is a result of listening, which in turn leads to even better listening and attentiveness to the other person. In other words, to learn from the child, we must have empathy, and empathy grows as we learn.
学习是倾听的结果，而倾听又能让你更好地倾听和关注他人。换句话说，要向孩子学习，我们必须有同理心，同理心随着我们的学习而增长。
Entrepreneurs may be brutally honest, but fostering relationships with partners and building enduring communities requires empathy, self-sacrifice and a willingness to help others without expecting anything in return.
企业家可能非常诚实，但培养与合作伙伴的关系，建立持久的社区，需要同理心、自我牺牲和乐于帮助他人而不期待任何回报。
I think we are living in selfish times. I'm the first one to say that I'm the most selfish. We live in the so-called 'first world,' and we may be first in a lot of things like technology, but we are behind in empathy.
我认为我们生活在一个自私的时代。我是第一个说我最自私的人。我们生活在所谓的“第一世界”，我们可能在很多事情上领先，比如科技，但我们在同理心方面落后了。
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One should examine oneself for a very long time before thinking of condemning others.
一个人在想要谴责别人之前，应该反省自己很长一段时间。
The opposite of anger is not calmness, its empathy.
愤怒的对立面不是平静，而是同情。
When we understand the needs that motivate our own and other's behavior, we have no enemies.
当我们理解了激励自己和他人行为的需求时，我们就没有敌人了。
To touch the soul of another human being is to walk on holy ground.
触摸另一个人的灵魂就是在圣地上行走。
Everything we do is in service of our needs. When this one concept is applied to our view of others, we'll see that we have no real enemies, that what others do to us is the best possible thing they know to do to get their needs met.
我们所做的一切都是为了满足我们的需要。当这一概念应用于我们对他人的看法时，我们会发现我们没有真正的敌人，别人对我们做的是他们知道的最好的事情来满足他们的需求。