A COLLECTION OF GOOD WORDS
悲伤
Grief
(The photograph was taken the day after I drowned. I am in the lake, in the center of the picture, just under the surface.)
这张照片是我淹死的第二天拍的。我在湖中，在照片的中央，就在水面下。)
I always knew looking back on the tears would make me laugh. But i never knew looking back on the laughs would make me cry.
我一直都知道，回头看那些眼泪会让我发笑。但我从来不知道回头看那些笑声会让我哭泣。
Man hands on misery to man. It deepens like a coastal shelf. Get out as early as you can, and don't have any kids yourself.
人把苦难传给人。它像海岸的大陆架一样变深。尽早出门，自己不要孩子。
In struggling against anguish one never produces serenity; the struggle against anguish only produces new forms of anguish.
在与痛苦的斗争中，人永远不能获得平静;与痛苦的斗争只会产生新的形式的痛苦。
There are no do overs and some things just aren't going to happen. It is a little sad but you just have to embrace what is.
没有重来过，有些事情就是不会发生。这是一个有点悲伤，但你只是要拥抱什么是。
What makes loneliness an anguish is not that I have no one to share my burden, but this: I have only my own burden to bear.
孤独之所以成为一种痛苦，不是因为没有人分担我的负担，而是因为我只有自己的负担。
I tried to drown my sorrows, but the bastards learned how to swim, and now I am overwhelmed by this decent and good feeling.
我试着去淹没我的悲伤，但是那些混蛋学会了游泳，现在我被这种体面和美好的感觉淹没了。
To be a character who feels a deep emotion, one must go into the memory's vault and mix in a sad memory from one's own life.
要成为一个情感深刻的人物，就必须进入记忆的宝库，融入自己生活中的悲伤记忆。
I've cried, and you'd think I'd be better for it, but the sadness just sleeps, and it stays in my spine the rest of my life.
我哭过，你会认为我会好起来的，但悲伤只是睡着了，它留在我的脊椎我的余生。
People have a hard time letting go of their suffering. Out of a fear of the unknown, they prefer suffering that is familiar.
人们很难从痛苦中解脱出来。出于对未知的恐惧，他们更喜欢熟悉的痛苦。
When I thought to know this, it was too painful for me; Until I went into the sanctuary of God; then understood I their end.
我想要知道这事，实在是太痛苦了。直到我进了神的圣所。然后我明白了他们的结局。
Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it’s better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together…
人际关系就像玻璃。有时候，让它们破碎总比试图伤害自己把它们重新组装起来要好。
KEEP EXPLORING
沿着这个主题，再读几句。
When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help. That's the message he is sending.
当别人让你受苦时，那是因为他内心深处在受苦，他的痛苦正在蔓延。他不需要惩罚;他需要帮助。这就是他要传达的信息。
There's a false perception that women in Africa somehow don't love their babies they way we do, don't grieve their loss the way we would. That is simply not true.
有一种错误的观念认为非洲的妇女不像我们一样爱她们的孩子，不像我们一样为失去孩子而悲伤。但事实并非如此。
He who can conceal his joys, is greater than he who can hide his griefs.
能隐藏快乐的人，比能隐藏悲伤的人更伟大。
The conscience of an artist worthy of the name is like an incurable disease which causes him endless torment but occasionally fills him with silent joy.
一个名副其实的艺术家的良心就像一种不治之症，给他带来无尽的折磨，但偶尔也会让他充满无言的喜悦。
There is a wisdom that is woe; but there is a woe that is madness.
有一种智慧叫悲哀;但有一种悲哀是疯狂的。
To give and receive love, you have to be in touch with pain, you have to be capable of provoking it and feeling it.
要给予和接受爱，你必须接触到痛苦，你必须能够激发和感受它。